{"id":109,"date":"2013-08-29T21:15:28","date_gmt":"2013-08-29T21:15:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/?p=109"},"modified":"2015-09-01T00:40:04","modified_gmt":"2015-09-01T00:40:04","slug":"a-new-view-of-hestia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/a-new-view-of-hestia\/","title":{"rendered":"The Hidden Fire&#8211; On Hestia and Home Making"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\">I&#8217;ve been thinking today about Hestia, Greek Goddess of the hearth. \u00a0\u00a0My strongest images of her come from\u00a0my favorite childhood book&#8211; D&#8217;aulaire&#8217;s Book of Greek Myths. \u00a0Hestia didn&#8217;t show up much in the stories. \u00a0A\u00a0family tree affirmed her to be Zeus&#8217;s sister. \u00a0Beyond that, I remember only one image of her.\u00a0 It was an image of Mount Olympus.\u00a0 All of the Gods and Goddesses sat radiant on their thrones.\u00a0 Zeus, with his thunderbolts.\u00a0 Athena with sword, shield, and owl.\u00a0 Demeter,\u00a0with daughter Persephone and crown of wheat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/S13.2Hestia.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-298 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/S13.2Hestia.jpg\" alt=\"S13.2Hestia\" width=\"256\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/S13.2Hestia.jpg 256w, https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/S13.2Hestia-140x300.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But\u00a0Hestia had no throne.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Dressed in a plain robe of brown, s<\/span>he sat by the hearth fire, tending the sacred flame.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When I was a child, Hestia never interested me much.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 She seemed drab. \u00a0Overly peaceable<\/span>.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Whereas\u00a0h<\/span>er immortal siblings\u00a0passed their days frolicking in diaphanous tunics, inspiring poets, and enjoying\u00a0scandalous affairs, Hestia didn&#8217;t get out much.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>She was the sort of person it was easy to overlook, sitting amidst the ashes. \u00a0And she was there by choice!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>No act of injustice had bound her there, no evil spell, or wish gone wrong\u00a0constrained her.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Why would anyone choose thus, let alone a Goddess?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Who would give up a life of adventure to sit beside the cinders?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">So went my thinking as a\u00a0young artist.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 In my teenage years and early twenties,\u00a0<\/span>I lived for wildness. \u00a0I read Rimbaud, Baudelaire, the French symbolists. \u00a0Like Aries, I was\u00a0tempestuous, warlike, quick to anger, flighty in my desires.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Like Aphrodite,\u00a0I was seduced by creativity&#8211; and lived to pass on its seduction to others.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Like Dionysis, I loved to experience any alteration to my state, to\u00a0lose myself in life&#8217;s intensity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I look back on that person and on those days, with fondness. \u00a0So it&#8217;s interesting now to find myself at this new place in my life,\u00a0where I too find myself sitting hearth side, and finding peace there.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Hestia&#8217;s place. \u00a0W<\/span>here I once saw plainness,\u00a0now I see warmth, love, and hidden colors.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Hestia as\u00a0a quiet muse.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Hestia as still center. \u00a0Hestia, a small, constant star, holding steady\u00a0amidst the ferocious pantheon of action and desire.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Hestia holds the space. \u00a0Amidst the pomp and showy beauty of her siblings,\u00a0it would be easy to overlook Hestia&#8217;s\u00a0her simple work&#8211; to tend this sacred flame&#8211; the flame of quiet presence.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And yet, without her, where would the Gods and Goddesses be?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Where would any of us be?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Every day, outside our Brooklyn apartment, at least twenty\u00a0ambulances go by, often waking\u00a0my little son\u00a0from his slumber.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We step outside, into the clamorous world. \u00a0Trucks barrel by, spewing exhaust.\u00a0\u00a0As we walk, billboards tell me what to do, what to buy, who to be.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Carrying my child, I try to shield his sweet eyes\u00a0from dark images on all sides.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Graphic pictures of people\u00a0with l<\/span>ung cancer.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 A poster for &#8220;Saw II&#8221;. \u00a0Another movie poster<\/span>\u00a0shows a woman cowering in terror, trying in vain to shelter her two children from an approaching shadow.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 My child<\/span>\u00a0stares wonderingly\u00a0as we hurry by them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I\u00a0long for a great wing, wide enough to shelter him, strong\u00a0enough to hold\u00a0him close to the mystery\u00a0from which he so recently came.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Hestia reminds me that amidst the\u00a0clamor, there lives\u00a0the point of return.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>She invites me into quiet, the still center of the world.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 I come with my child in my arms. \u00a0<\/span>Together, we go in quiet, to sit\u00a0beside her hearthside.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 T<\/span>here, we know\u00a0peace.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 &#8220;Stay as long as you like,&#8221; she says gently. \u00a0And we do. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">At times,\u00a0dear friends\u00a0come to me, also\u00a0shellshocked from\u00a0the mad world outside, refugees seeking the\u00a0shelter of a listening\u00a0ear. \u00a0Here, Hestia is again my teacher.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 I<\/span>\u00a0imagine the sacred hearth of\u00a0Olympus.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>How it must have glowed as a place to circle round, to gather, perhaps to sing.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Ovid, Plutarch, the other Bards focus on the God&#8217;s action packed\u00a0exploits. \u00a0<\/span>But each misadventure had a\u00a0morning after.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The stumbling home.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Who else would be awake?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Only one, maybe&#8211;<\/span>\u00a0Hestia, beside the fire.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Hestia&#8217;s quiet peace. \u00a0Hestia the listener.\u00a0 Hestia,\u00a0warm friend.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Hestia.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-299 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Hestia.jpg\" alt=\"Hestia\" width=\"597\" height=\"393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Hestia.jpg 597w, https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Hestia-300x197.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 597px) 100vw, 597px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But was Hestia\u00a0only a listener?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Perhaps not!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 T<\/span>hinking about the hearthside, perhaps I focus\u00a0too much on the strength and solidity of stone.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I haven&#8217;t explored\u00a0the fire itself.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The fire!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>What tireless dancing!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>What hidden life!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Hestia as<\/span>\u00a0a dancer!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>For as she watches the flame, it dances in her. \u00a0She\u00a0lives into\u00a0it, becomes it, as we all inevitably become what we cherish.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But it is yet more than this.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For Hestia&#8217;s peace is\u00a0a particular kind&#8211; it is\u00a0the peace of loving, intentional surrender.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 In this surrender lies the deepest form of empowerment. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Hestia\u00a0warmed\u00a0a space for others\u00a0to\u00a0gather.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Not only with her flame<\/span>, but with\u00a0her listening, and her still, loving quiet. \u00a0Drab, invisible Hestia as a connector (!)\u00a0 Invisibly,\u00a0perhaps, she\u00a0drew and held them&#8211; these\u00a0too bright, careening stars of Gods, burning in all\u00a0directions.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>On Earth, amidst mortals, gods like Zeus\u00a0were both enmeshed and aloof.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 They were b<\/span>ound by desire and by\u00a0duty to the world of human kind.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But at the same time, they were above it, dangerous in their powers.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Their gift was to have whatever they wanted.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Their curse was to never be satisfied.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But around the sacred hearth, maybe things were simpler. \u00a0They belonged.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Together in their absolute power. \u00a0Together in\u00a0absolute powerlessness against desire and impulse. \u00a0Huddled around\u00a0the warmth of\u00a0Hestia, who in her implausible contentment was the only one who was truly free.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\">* \u00a0 * \u00a0*<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Free.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I look at my son, Ember&#8211;\u00a0a<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0longed for,<\/span>\u00a0wished for, prayed for child.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 Each day with him, I reflect on the miracle of his coming to us<\/span>.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I watch him sleep. \u00a0His beauty overwhelms me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Ember-Sleep.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-301 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Ember-Sleep.jpg\" alt=\"Ember Sleep\" width=\"720\" height=\"684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Ember-Sleep.jpg 720w, https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/Ember-Sleep-300x285.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I feel the peace of landing. \u00a0The easy\u00a0beauty\u00a0of a simple home.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A home\u00a0small enough that we can easily ensoul it, that our warmth may\u00a0penetrate its\u00a0every corner.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A space\u00a0small enough to keep\u00a0tidy, without much fuss.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 A space without too many things in it<\/span>. \u00a0A space with room to dream.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Such simple things I&#8217;ve come to focus on, of late. \u00a0Food, shelter, love.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The joy of kinship\u00a0and long conversations.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The pleasure in\u00a0taking our\u00a0time.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I seek now the\u00a0still center.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In this space, I taste peace.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I listen, learn. \u00a0I warm my hands over the belly of the hidden fire.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking today about Hestia, Greek Goddess of the hearth. \u00a0\u00a0My strongest images of her come from\u00a0my favorite childhood book&#8211; 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