{"id":2203,"date":"2017-08-12T00:00:14","date_gmt":"2017-08-12T00:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/?p=2203"},"modified":"2017-08-12T00:00:14","modified_gmt":"2017-08-12T00:00:14","slug":"a-song-for-holding-tight-and-letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/a-song-for-holding-tight-and-letting-go\/","title":{"rendered":"A song for holding tight&#8230; and letting go"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|15%||15%&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;16&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>In my classes, <strong>my favorite moment is nearly always the check-in.<\/strong> \u00a0I include this moment in every class I teach, because I love hearing from you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m always moved by <strong>how much we have in common<\/strong> &#8211; both in our struggles and in our striving.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lately, there&#8217;s a theme that&#8217;s come up in every recent class I&#8217;ve taught.<\/strong> \u00a0It&#8217;s that delicate dance we experience in motherhood, and in fact in all of life, between <strong>holding tight and letting go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is alive for us right now for different reasons. \u00a0<strong>Some of us, after being home with our child or baby,<\/strong> <strong>are going back to work<\/strong>. \u00a0Others are <strong>sending a child to school for the first time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For some of us, myself included, it&#8217;s both these things. \u00a0My son, Ember, who turns five next month, will start school five days a week for the first time, AND I&#8217;ll be teaching almost every day which means more time away from my two year old.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To face increased separation from our child is a huge transition. \u00a0<\/strong>It can bring up so many complex feelings. \u00a0And even if it is a change we basically feel ready for, it is bittersweet.<\/p>\n<p>I feel passionately that facing a moment like this,\u00a0<strong>women need support. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But it is more than that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I believe that we need ritual. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We need experiences that can provide the safe space to feel and move through our feelings in community. \u00a0To find <strong>shared strength,<\/strong> <strong>common ground<\/strong>, and <strong>a sense of how our own individual experience fits into the big picture.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So I have two offerings today that I hope can help meet that need for us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>First, a song.<\/strong> (You\u2019ll learn it in the video.)<\/p>\n<p>Sing it on your way to work, hum it in the bathroom during lunch hour. Sing it when you need to feel your child close.<\/p>\n<p>It will help you tap into the sense in which we are all connected. Always.<\/p>\n<p>And that is a bond that can never be severed. Not by time. Not by distance. Not by anything.<\/p>\n<p>Second, <strong>I want to invite you to our gathering on August 20th.<\/strong> At this gathering, we will <strong>talk, sing, laugh<\/strong>, <strong>do a guided meditation<\/strong>, and <strong>hold space for one another<\/strong> around the theme of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/singingcircles\/august-20th-singing-circle-and-musical-ritual\/\"><strong>Holding Tight and Letting Go.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This event is warmly open to all women in transition, whatever that may mean to you.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for listening, and blessings on your journey!<\/p>\n<p>Warmly,<\/p>\n<p>Noe Venable<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_code admin_label=&#8221;Code&#8221;]&lt;iframe width=&#8221;560&#8243; height=&#8221;315&#8243; src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WbmwHfQCf1c&#8221; frameborder=&#8221;0&#8243; allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;\/iframe&gt;[\/et_pb_code][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|15%||15%&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;16&#8243;] In my classes, my favorite moment is nearly always the check-in. \u00a0I include this moment in every class I teach, because I love hearing from you. 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