{"id":881,"date":"2022-12-07T06:21:44","date_gmt":"2022-12-07T06:21:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/tendthewell\/?p=881"},"modified":"2023-01-23T17:06:56","modified_gmt":"2023-01-23T17:06:56","slug":"do-you-doubt-your-intuition-this-might-be-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noevenable.com\/tendthewell\/do-you-doubt-your-intuition-this-might-be-why\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Doubt Your Intuition?  This might be why&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.17.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.17.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.17.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.17.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;Lora&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">What was the pervasive spiritual ethos in your family of origin &amp; how did that ethos affect you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">This question was put to me during the final stages of ministerial ordination this past month.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">I was raised amidst the ethos of rationalism, received from my family and the culture at large.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Rationalism is the belief that we should base our lives on reason and knowledge, as opposed to listening to intuition, spirituality, or emotion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Now, I don&#8217;t want to knock rationalism. Reason is important. I value my ability to think. To inquire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">But, for a young spiritual seeker, the consistent prioritization of rationalism above other ways (heart knowing, intuition, emotion&#8230;) comes with a cost.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Picture our seeker, hungry to understand the world in all its dimensions, including the hidden ones. Magic. Karma. Energy. The hidden connections between things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Picture this person growing up under the influence of an over culture (family, school, etc,) where spiritual curiosity is met with blank stares, dismissal or disdain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">When this happens, a rift may form within the seeker as they seek equilibrium between their own FELT experience of the world (so WILDLY enspirited! So vibrantly ALIVE!) and what they see prioritized around them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">One part of the seeker says &#8220;I know what I experience. It&#8217;s REAL!&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Another part harmonizes with the surrounding ethos by turning a critical eye on what she knows.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">(You&#8217;re just IMAGINING it. You can&#8217;t PROVE it. Who would believe you?!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">In this case, rationalism can function as a disruptive pattern, cutting the seeker off from dimensions of life that it is actually imperative for them to explore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">The good news is you can HEAL this split!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">The truth is, both viewpoints have value.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Rationalism &#8211; &#8220;I want to understand. To know!&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Spirituality &#8211; &#8220;I seek meaning. Belonging. To fulfill my soul&#8217;s purpose.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Logos and Mythos. Two dimensions of human experience that make up a unified whole.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">With inner work, you can bring these parts of yourself into conversation, and help them come to peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">In the spiritual counseling work I do, Depth Hypnosis, we have a process for this. It&#8217;s called Inner Coming to Peace, and it can help with any area where you&#8217;re of two minds on a subject, as in self-doubt, self sabotage, or difficulty making a decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Because here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m coming to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">To identify with just one part of yourself may look like health, if it aligns with the larger value system you&#8217;re immersed in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">But in focusing on just one part of you, you miss out on so much richness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Integration is possible! And in WHOLENESS lies your true strength.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">And what about you? 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